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How To Gift For Him Based On His Love Language

February 2, 2023

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Words of Affirmation Love Language Gift Ideas For Him: greeting cards piled on Louis Vuitton agenda and The 5 Love Languages hardcover book  

A list of love language gift ideas for him because sometimes gifting is hard.

Okay, um, have you ever given your man a gift && his reaction wasn’t really great? It definitely isn’t because you aren’t good at shopping, but maybe it is because he isn’t into gifts so to speak. 

Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages, teaches that we each have a specific love language and that understanding our partner’s is the key to our happily ever after. 

So, before his birthday or the next holiday, have your husband take the Love Language Quiz so that you know how to gift him something he really wants.

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Acts of Service Gifts For Him

Bake him cookies.

He will LOVE these sugar cookies! Also, doesn’t it feel like food should be its own love language?

Fuel up his vehicle.

This is such an easy way to show you understand his love language.

Monthly car wash pass. 

So the “real” act of service gift is to actually take his car to the car wash; however, a monthly pass still shows you are willing and want to do something for him.

Physical Touch Gifts For Him

Cozy Blanket

A super soft blanket like this is perfect. Add a spritz of your perfume && he’ll feel like you are hugging him while he is getting cozy.

Sexy Time Stuff

Your anniversary, his birthday, Christmas, Valentine’s Day .. . literally any occasion. If his love language is physical touch you cannot go wrong with something naughty.

Underwear

Gift him some SAXX unnies and include a note about how you cannot wait until tonight.

Quality Time Gifts For Him

Birthday Day Date

This post has a list of drinks + food you can get for free on his birthday. Spend the day celebrating && enjoying treats together!

Do a sheet mask together.

Get him this mask && a card explaining how Sheet Mask Sunday is now a thing.  

Get a pedicure together.

I mean this is really like a win-win sitch. You are filling his quality-time-cup && you get a pedi.

Go to spin class together.

Sooo you obviously won’t be having a deep, meaningful conversation during class, but riding side-by-side, pushing your physical limits together is so rewarding. 

Play puzzle together.

Choose a puzzle with a photo of something that he is into. Put on some background music && you will be surprised at how easy the conversation flows. Something about doing a puzzle together .. . it totally gives quality time.

Receiving Gifts Gifts For Him

Cologne

But let him choose his own. The Cologne Sampler Set from Sephora is perfect because he gets to sample several different options and then redeem the included voucher for his full-sized favorite.

Framed Photo

Frame a cute photo of your littles that he can keep in his office.

YETI Mug

Forever recommending YETI mugs, they are so good!

Words of Affirmation Gifts For Him

Love Letter

Get some special stationary and write him a love letter. Be sure to highlight his best qualities, tell him why you are proud to be his wife, and include a recent compliment you received about him.

Mixbook Photo Book

Design a photo book with your favorite pictures of him && add matching captions; e.g., “You are the best at .. .,”  “I love that you always .. .,” “Your dedication to .. is .. .”

Personalized Keychain

Something simple like this or this is perfect for his keyring. You can add a sweet message that he will see daily.

Love Language Gift Ideas For Him.

Gifts For Him Love Language Edition Pinterest Pin

This is perfect for your Gift Aesthetic board on Pinterest! You should totally consider saving it.

xo | bethany

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